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Monday, October 26, 2015

Whistle While You Work

Stop. Collaborate and listen. But really if you haven't read "How may I help you?" you may want to go to that post first. It will explain what I have been up to for the last few months and the reason for this post.

As I was writing about work in my last post I started reflecting on different experiences I had. I thought they were worth sharing so here are some highlights and memorable moments from the workplace:

Rite Aid

Being robbed 

Yes, you read that right. And to make it better it was during my first week working as a cashier. It happened when this woman came in and wanted change. She did this maneuver (similar to a card trick) with her cash and when she left she ended up having more money than she gave me. The worst part was I knew that she was stealing from me. I was just so scared that I didn't know what to do. I was like "this wouldn't happen in a place like Cranberry would it?" I would soon learn that people stole all the time. We'd find empty packages hidden all over the store. It was sad, but there wasn't much we could do except be observant. And not get fooled by people wanting $20 worth of change for a $.99 chapstick.

Zimbabwe man

This is one of the weirdest things that happened while I was there. At Rite Aid we did money transfers offered by Western Union. The person sending or receiving money would pick up a phone by the cash register and get a confirmation code from WU. Then they would give us the code and we would do the rest. It was pretty easy, but this time was different. This man wearing a Dominos uniform walked up to me with his code after spending over 15 minutes on the phone and handed it to me. I typed in the numbers and instead of bringing up the option to confirm the transaction a text message popped up. It said "Ask the customer what their favorite color is. If they do not answers exactly as it is printed below do not go through with the transfer" On the screen under that it said "blue". 

Suddenly it turned into one of those mystery episodes where you don't know if someone is really who they say they are and you have to test them with personal questions. Was this going to turn into a Supernatural episode? So I turned to the man and said "This has never happened before and it may seem weird, but I need to ask you a question. What is your favorite color?" Without blinking he stared me in the eyes and said "red" *cue the horror music* I didn't know what to do then, but thankfully one of my managers was there to handle it. She said we couldn't give him the money until he had the right answer. So he left, but within a couple hours he came back and proudly walked up to me, smiled, and said "blue". He answered right so I gave him the money. I would see him occasionally after that. He would receive money and then immediately send it away again to Zimbabwe. I never asked why, but it was fun to come up with possible scenarios when it wasn't busy and I had nothing to do.

Bowing man

When he walked into the store I said "Hello!" and he turned to me and bowed and said "good evening". Then when he got what he came for and walked up to the register, he bowed to me again (in front of the whole line!) and said "how are you miss?" This was very sweet but I didn't know how to respond so being the quick thinker I am I said "good!" *facepalm* This is usually what happened when people would try to flirt with me. I would feel awkward so I would start rambling and they would end up looking at me like I was crazy. For instance their was this guy who asked for my number every time he came in the store, so I would go on about my boyfriend who lived in Australia. And because I am such a convincing lier *cough* he didn't buy it at all. So I started avoiding going to the register and waiting for my manager to help him. Great job Karissa! 

The lady who made me laugh till I cried

This is one of my favorite memories from working at Rite Aid. Ok, so to set the scene it was about 8:30 at night. I had worked at Denny's that morning, I had a migraine, and I was ready for it to be 10 o'clock so I could go home. This woman walked up the register and started making small talk. Then she asked me about this wallet that she was buying for her son, which is a perfectly normal thing to ask right? But for some reason the way she asked made me start laughing. Now when I am tired I feel like a zombie, but I act like I am fine so that people won't notice. But when I am extremely exhausted I hit this point where the smallest thing seems hilarious. 

That is what happened with this lady. When she saw me laughing she joined right in and started going on about her son and how if he wanted a wallet so bad he should have just come in the store himself instead of sitting in car. (I'm actually laughing right now just thinking about it.) So we sat there laughing until her son did actually come in the store wondering why it was taking her so long. She turned to him and asked if he liked the wallet and he said no. This just made me laugh harder. So while he went to get a new wallet his mom stayed with me and kept making me laugh. By the time he came back I was crying from laughter. I can't remember what she even said or why I thought it was funny, but she was exactly what I needed that night. She helped a half hour fly by and made me laugh which made my night ten times better. And thankfully she thought it was funny too and didn't think I had completely lost my mind. 

Last day 

My last day was interesting. It was the day we had one of the worst thunder storms we had in a long time. It was around 7:00pm and only my manager Brittany and I were in the store with one customer. Rain was pouring on the roof and we could see lightning outside. Then all of a sudden the power went out! All three of us rushed to front to get to the natural light coming through the windows. Suddenly a man and his girlfriend banged the front door open (without power they wouldn't open automatically) The man said "Can we buy anything?" Brittany told him that unfortunately, no we could sell anything because without power, the registers were down. Angrily he stormed out with his girlfriend shouting "I need to buy chapstick!" It was hilarious. The other customer left seeing that she couldn't buy anything, so me and Brittany were left in the store alone in the dark. It was like an adventure! I ,thought we'd get to go home, but our manager Steve called and told us to wait and see what happened. So we kept working on price tags by the light of our phones until two hours later when the power finally came on. It was the most exciting last day I could have asked for!



Denny's 



Adjusting from the PCC

Some of you may know that during my first year at college I worked at the Polynesian Cultural Center in one of the restaurant as a hostess. This gave me great experience and helped me with my job at Denny's quite a lot. I already knew how to seat people and what good customer service was. (In Hawaii we called it the 'Aloha Spirit') I did have to refrain from greeting customers with an "Aloha!" while shaking a shaka when they walked through the door though :)

Tip for the hostess 

This completely took me by surprise. After this man had paid, he held out two dollars and said to me "This is for you. You were a delight and made us laugh even though the line was busy when we came in. We enjoyed talking to you." It made me so happy because the only way I could get tips was from take out orders and even then people rarely left anything. I guess it is not common knowledge that you tip for take-out. (It's the hostess's job to put all the food together, including making drinks and milkshakes) 

One time I asked this lady if she wanted to leave a tip and she said "No I don't tip for take-out. It's like McDonalds." I kindly smiled and said "Yeah..." I shouldn't complain though because I worked with wonderful people like my friend Mary who would use some of her tip money to pay for my break meals whenever she worked. Also the other waitresses would sometimes give me a few dollars at the end of the day for helping them. We helped each other a lot. They knew I didn't like doing my floor so they would sweep and mop for me and I would help with their side work, like filling the syrups. That actually became bit of a joke. They all thought it was so funny that I liked filling the syrups. After a while it was pretty much my job. Whoever had it that day would say "Oh look I have the syrups today, I wonder if someone would like to help me" And then they would smile at me knowing that I was more than willing. We all made a good team. I will miss them at college. But I'll definitely be back to visit when I come home :)

Zimbabwe man part 2

Yes, he found me at Denny's. I kid you not. He came in with his daughter. We actually became friends after a while and he was sad to hear I was quitting Rite Aid. So as they say 'don't judge a book by its cover' or by the scary money transactions they do late at night that require a password. 

Cute couples

One of the sweetest things about working at Denny's is the customers. So many older couples would come in to enjoy some breakfast food together. My favorite is when sweet old men would hold their wives hand and guide them to the table. You could really see how much they loved each other. One man even pulled out the chair for his wife and then gave his coat to her so she wouldn't be cold. It was touching to see little moments like that.

Seeing friends

I did also get visits from family and friends. This goes for both places. Thank you to those that came in and visited me. It always brightened my day to see a happy familiar face!

Last day

My wonderful co-workers completely surprised me on my last day. Towards the end of my shift, one of the waitresses named Sherry came up to me and said "Karissa they need you in the back!" So I followed her back there to find the rest of the waitresses waiting for me with a cake. They also gave me a card with money they had collected to help with college. I was so touched I almost started crying. I gave them all hugs and took pictures of course :)



Do you see why I should have written about this sooner? I have so much to say and now I finally have time to write about it. I hope you enjoyed my stories. And I'll try to stay up to date with this blog, but with school starting soon I don't want to make any promises. I'll just say I'll do my best! 

Thanks for reading!

TTFN, KARISSA

How can I help you?

Hello everyone!

Wait. What is this? Two blog posts in the same month? What has gotten into me? No three month gap? Haha joking aside I think it is about time that I wrote this post. In my missionary suitcase entry I told you that I have now quit both of my jobs. But in my post from June I told you I couldn't get a job at all. So I suppose an explanation is due. 

Shortly after I posted about my job finding struggles I was contacted by, not one, but two employers! I interviewed at Denny's and Rite Aid and they both hired me! In fact on the day of my interview my manager at Denny's said "consider yourself part of the team!" I was ecstatic! I told my managers that I was offered a job at other places and both they said that was fine. They even said they would each work around my schedule.  Denny's told me they needed me during the day and Rite Aid needed me at night. Everything seemed to be working out perfectly! Little did I know I was taking on an incredible task. You should know whenever things like this happen, I go into the mindset that I can do any job. If people need my help I am willing to do just about anything. 

On my mission I think this drove my companions a little crazy because if we asked for service and someone told us about a project I was immediately like "Yes! We can do that! When do you need us?" And lets just say my companionship hit the service hours maximum most weeks :)



For three months I worked both jobs. I was a hostess at Denny's and a cashier at Rite Aid. I was making good money and getting along with my wonderful coworkers, so life was good. Then around the middle of August something happened with the scheduling and both places needed me to work more hours. I would work at Denny's from 8-3 and then rush over to Rite Aid where I would be scheduled to work 3-10. This only happened a couple times at first, but then it became almost daily. I was working 14 hour days and exhausting myself. When I'd wake up in the morning it would be hard to walk. I can't tell you how many shoe inserts I bought over those few months. 

It was also hard because I wasn't spending any time with my family as I wasn't home all day. I decided I had to pick which job I would quit and which one I would keep until I went to school. Although it was sad, but I decided to quit Rite Aid. I then continued working at Denny's for another month until finally quitting about a week ago so that I could focus on getting ready for school. 




I am truly grateful for the experiences I had at both places. I learned a lot about myself while I was there. At Rite Aid it confirmed to me that I love to organize things. One of my favorite things was truck day when we got to put all the new merchandise in the proper place. It may seem weird, but I considered that "fun". 

Aside from that, the thing that stood out to me the most was that I truly love helping people. I could have only learned this by having both of these jobs at the same time. Let me explain. At Rite Aid the thing I enjoyed most was finding what people were looking for. Nothing made me feel happier than someone asking where the toothpaste was and being able to say "Aisle nine, just go straight to the back!" Although sometimes I did send people on a wild goose chase when they asked about medicine. I'd point in the general direction of the pharmacy and then rush behind them to find it so I had some credibility. I also enjoyed doing the cash register. However, for the rest of my shift I was pretty bored. 

At Denny's it was a different story. I always had something to do and I loved it. If I wasn't cleaning the windows, I was clearing tables, or I was wiping and setting tables, rolling silverware, taking drink orders, doing the register, stocking items, or preparing to-go orders. I was constantly helping people whether it was the customers, the waitresses, or my managers. The contrast between the two jobs showed me that I thrive when I help other people. I guess that's how it was on my mission too. I wasn't the best at doorstep lessons or tracting, but if we were doing a service project I was full of energy. Now, don't get the impression that I love being busy. Just ask my family, if I am home with nothing to do I am content for hours. But if I have a job to do, I give my all.

I think that is what it means to be Christ-like. I'm not saying I'm perfect by any means, but it is something for all of us to strive for. If more people would focus on helping others instead of tearing then down and 'dragging' them, the world would be a better place. Jesus Christ takes our burdens and makes them light so we should in turn do that for our brothers and sisters.

There is a scripture in the Book of Mormon that talks about this. It is from the book of Mosiah when the Lord is speaking to the people of Alma.
 "And I will also ease the burdens which are put upon your shoulders, that even you cannot feel them upon your backs, even while you are in bondage; and this will I do that ye may stand as witnesses for me hereafter, and that ye may know of a surety that I, the Lord God, do visit my people in their afflictions. And now it came to pass that the burdens which were laid upon Alma and his brethren were made light; yea, the Lord did strengthen them that they could bear up their burdens with ease, and they did submit cheerfully and with patience to all the will of the Lord." (Mosiah 24:14-15)

So just like a missionary, I will leave you all with a commitment. This week pray for an experience to help someone who needs you. I promise that no matter how you are feeling or what kind of day you are having, it will make you feel better. True happiness comes from serving others :)

Have a beautiful week!


TTFN, KARISSA 

Friday, October 23, 2015

Missionary Check List

Hello everybody! 

I am so happy to finally be writing this.  I have had the idea for this post for months, but work and life have been keeping me busy. Now that I have quit both of my jobs (more on that soon!), I now have some time before school to focus on these types of things.

So what was my grand idea? Well recently, several people I am close to have received their mission calls to serve for our church. Seeing their posts online has made me reflect on how I felt when I received my mission call last year. I was excited but also nervous because I had no idea what I should expect. Sure, I had heard missionary stories my whole life, but those were just the highlights. Day-to-day missionary life was a mystery to me.  I had no idea what I would need to bring with me besides some skirts and my scriptures. Thankfully in my call packet there was a packing check-list which I very much appreciated, as I am a very list oriented person. (You should see the files on my computer, everything is categorized) But while the list did help, when I got to the field I realized that it contained only the essentials. I had forgotten a lot of things that I would need for the next 18 months (like pictures of my family!). As I was reflecting on this, I decided to make an all inclusive list of things to bring on a mission for those who are preparing to serve so they don't make the same mistakes that I did. 

Let's begin shall we! I tried to group the items in a way that made most sense (and being the organizer I am this was quite fun for me) and I've added pictures for reference!

Travel

Suitcases (2 large/1 carry on)
Duffle bag (for exchanges)


Clothing 

Skirts and blouses (8 - 10)
Dresses (3 - 5)
Slips (1 - 2)
Blazers (2)
Pajamas
Exercise clothing 
Sweatpants/sweatshirt
Cardigans
Undershirts (shade shirts from DownEast are my favorite)
Underclothing
Garments (10 - 12 pairs) 
Tights (cotton lined ones are great for winter)
T-shirt and jeans for service projects
Service gloves
Socks

Winter Clothing

Coat (rain and winter)
Scarf
Gloves
Hat
Boots
Sweaters
Long sleeve undershirts

Shoes

Sunday shoes
Proselyting shoes
Shower sandals (for the MTC) 
Shoe inserts (you will be doing lots of walking!)

Accessories

Watch
Necklaces
Bracelets 
Earrings
CTR ring 
Headbands
Belts
Scarves
Sunglasses

Apartment Needs

Comforter
Blanket
Sheets
Pillows
Pillow cases
Hangers
Towels (2)
Hand towel
Laundry Bag
     *If possible these can be bought in the mission field to make packing easier

Personal Care

Glasses
Contacts
Medication
Contact Solution
Make up (eye shadow, mascara, foundation, eye liner)
Make up bag
Make up remover
Face cleanser
Lotion
Vasaline 
Deodorant
Perfume
Hand sanitizer 

Bathroom Items

Shampoo/Conditioner
Dry shampoo
Body wash
Feminine products 
Razor
Toothbrush
Tooth paste
Floss
Tweezers
Blow dryer
Straightener
Curling iron
Hair spray
Hair ties
Bobby pins
Brush and comb
Q-tips
Nail file and clippers
Nail polish

Stationary

Address book
Cards
Writing paper
Envelopes
Stamps
Address labels
Colored pens
Pencils
Stickers
Tape
Scissors
Post-it notes
Scripture marking pens
Highlighters
Notebook
Journal
Shout-out journal

Spiritual

Scriptures 
Scripture case
Hymn book
Preach My Gospel
True to the Faith
Jesus the Christ
Our Heritage
Our Search for Happiness
Conference talks
Binders (for study material)

Daily Needs

Shoulder bag 
Camera
SD card
Camera charger
GPS
Tide-To-Go pen/ Shout wipes
Kleenex 
Water Bottle

Miscellaneous 

Flash Drive
SD converter 
 Flashlight
Alarm clock
Umbrella
Photo albums (pictures of family!)
Sewing kit
Sunblock 
Lint Brush
Bug spray
Benadryl spray 
First Aid kit (Band-Aids, Neosporin) 
Ibuprofen
Plug converter (for international missions)
Coin purse

Important

Wallet
Cash
Photo ID
Drivers license 
Debit card
Loyalty cards (if you want the discounts)
Temple recommend
Immunization record
Passport (if needed) 
Health insurance 


Ta da! I worked so hard on getting all that together. But it was worth it. Unfortunately I didn't get this finished in time to reach my target audience (my cousins and friends who are serving missions and are now in the MTC) but I figure that if their family members read this and see they forgot something, they can put a little box together for them. That was something that my angel mother did for me quite often on my mission. I'd email her with requests like "It turns out I do need a blazer, could you send me one please?" and "Could you send me my coat, it's actually cold here!" I even emailed my Grandpa Jordan and asked him for dinosaur hunting licenses from the dinosaur museum which he most kindly sent to me. I didn't include those in my list, but they did come in handy more than once on my mission when teaching kids :)

And even though I had them in mind, this list is not just for those serving now. I hope in the future it will help some of the youth who are preparing to go on a mission. I hope they can refer back to this list and that it helps make packing easier.  



Thank you for reading! 


TTFN, Karissa